火星撞地球

2010-10-22T19:42:00.001+08:00

Switched to wingedcupidpaintedblind.tumblr.com :)

2010-10-21T16:40:00.000+08:00

2010-10-19T00:10:00.001+08:00

"As we grow older, it becomes difficult to just believe"

That’s what happens sometimes. Friendships are lost, altered, damaged. People change, or you simply finally appreciate who they have been all along… And so you realize they don’t have a space in your life anymore. Doesn’t matter how long it’s been, how deep it’s gone… It happens, it ends. You move on.

2010-10-19T00:02:00.001+08:00

Nothing compares to the intensity of that feeling.

2010-10-18T00:06:00.001+08:00

If something bad happens to us someday,
it’ll never change what we have now
-what we’ve always had

What happens, however, when we can’t even find peace within ourselves? What happens when we start a war against the only person whose thoughts and actions we can control? Who, then, do we turn to for an ally? The scary thing about being at war with yourself is realizing that a part of you will always end up surrendering. A part of you will never win.

2010-10-18T00:02:00.002+08:00

Talk and I'll listen.

At times it's good to pretend that everything’s alright. Because when everybody else thinks you’re fine, sometimes you forget for a while that you’re not.

2010-10-18T00:02:00.001+08:00

Interesting fact: The sound you hear when you crack your knuckles is actually the sound of nitrogen gas bubbles bursting.

2010-10-17T13:40:00.002+08:00

After all , I get to see what I don't .
I learn to be a different friend from today onwards.

2010-10-17T00:10:00.000+08:00

Know your own worth.

It is no surprise to me that hardly anyone tells the truth about how they feel. The smart ones keep themselves to themselves for good reason. Why would you want to tell anyone anything that’s dear to you? Even when you like them and want nothing more than to be closer than close to them? It’s so painful to be next to someone you feel strongly about and know you can’t say the things you want to.

—Henry Rollins

2010-10-17T00:06:00.001+08:00

Most times , it's just alot easier not to let the world know what's wrong.

This is the thing about life I’ve never really understood until now: we try so hard to control it, but bad things happen anyway. The only real control is an anti-control, a letting go.

—	R.A Nelson

2010-10-17T00:02:00.000+08:00

You’re going to mess up sometimes.

But the good part is, you get to decide how you’re gonna mess it up.

—Marilyn Monroe

In life, there are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go of.

2010-10-16T16:30:00.001+08:00

I know it’s human nature for people to feel bad, and have regret, and to be hurt. But sometimes I wish that said people could see things from every perspective, because somewhere in the mess, it’s still beautiful.

2010-10-16T00:06:00.000+08:00

2010-10-16T00:05:00.001+08:00

There is a way to make things good again.

— The Kite Runner.

Everyone keeps asking me if I’m okay. What am I supposed to tell them? No, I’m not okay. And then what? So I just smile and say that I’m fine, even though I’m really dying on the inside.

2010-10-16T00:02:00.000+08:00

Sometimes people are beautiful.

Not in looks, or in what they say.
Just in what they are.

—Markus Zusak

No matter where life takes you — big cities, small towns — you will inevitably run across small minds. People who think they are better than you, people who think that being pretty or popular automatically makes you a worthwhile human. None of these things matter as long as you have a strength of character, integrity … sense of pride. So when you meet someone for the first time, don’t judge them by their situation in life, because you never know, they may end up being your very best friend.

—Dawson’s Creek (via justbesplendid)

2010-10-15T21:24:00.002+08:00

2010-10-15T21:23:00.000+08:00

One day ,I hope you'll see .
Just one day .

2010-10-14T00:10:00.000+08:00

She thinks she’s getting better but really,
she’s just getting used to the pain.

I used to care a lot about what people thought of me. Then I learned that I definitely can’t please everyone. Some people will like you, and some people will hate you, but I really don’t care either way. I’m not losing sleep over it.

2010-10-14T00:06:00.002+08:00

Find your heart and follow it.

Find your pain and swallow it.

2010-10-14T00:05:00.000+08:00

It will all come to you eventually. You will have to face what you have to deal with, it’s a matter of time.I wish I was a little smarter, just a little. Everything would have been simpler, in all forms.

2010-10-13T00:10:00.000+08:00

Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself.
You have to know that you’re a good person and a good friend.

People don't look at your personality first.People judge you automatically by your looks and then try to get to know your personality. But the second they don't like your looks , they don't get to know you. That's how reality is.
-(via jaleenicole)

2010-10-13T00:06:00.003+08:00

Last 3 days in Ananias.

The best damn thing about them ;
They can be the root of anger ,

yet at the same time the source of happiness :)

2010-10-13T00:05:00.000+08:00

2010-10-12T00:10:00.000+08:00

I like people who have a sense of individuality. I love expression and anything awkward and imperfect, because that’s natural and that’s real.

—Marc Jacobs

2010-10-12T00:06:00.000+08:00

If happens to be :
Just because I’m quiet, doesn’t mean I don’t have a lot to say. Just because I appear happy, doesn’t mean everything is okay. Just because I forgive, doesn’t mean I forget. Just because I don’t listen to your problems, doesn’t mean I don’t care. Just because I’m gullible, doesn’t mean I can be cheated. Just because I’m stubborn, doesn’t mean I’m not easy going. Just because I don’t study, doesn’t mean I’m stupid. Just because I don’t show my feelings, doesn’t mean I don’t have any. Just because I’m honest, doesn’t mean I’m outspoken. Just because I’m not like you, doesn’t mean I’m weird. Just because I’m unsure, doesn’t mean I’m afraid.

2010-10-12T00:05:00.000+08:00

Reality is the name we give to our disappointments.

—Mason Cooley

You know it’s been said that we just don’t recognize the significant moments of our lives while they’re happening. We grow complacent with ideas, or things or people and we take them for granted and it’s usually not until that thing is about to be taken away from you that you’ve realized how wrong you’ve been that you realized how much you need it, how much you love it.

—One Tree Hill

2010-10-11T00:10:00.000+08:00

Always hope ;
Never expect.

One must be fond of people & trust them if one is not to make a mess of life.

2010-10-11T00:06:00.000+08:00

Don’t settle for the one you can live with;
settle for the one you can’t live without.

2010-10-11T00:05:00.000+08:00

2010-10-10T15:16:00.000+08:00

Happy Ultimate Binary Day

2010-10-10T00:10:00.000+08:00

"A real friend tells you the truth even if it hurts."

No one is born the way she/he is now. Someone who seems strong must had gone through something in life, she must had been weak. So don’t think that she won’t fall. Someone who seems weak might not be what you think, she could be stronger than you think. So don’t think that she cannot handle life. We all grow up in circumstances and life that make us who we are now. Everyone has a story, different. Everyone deserves to be loved. But when you meet people who have gone through their own stories and are strong, yes they can take control of their lives. In fact everyone has that ability. But that is when they need to be loved, cared and shown concern for, given support, be taken care of, be respected, and be loved. That is when they deserve it all the more.

2010-10-10T00:05:00.000+08:00

The strongest people aren’t always the people who win,
but the people who don’t give up when they lose.

2010-10-09T00:10:00.001+08:00

So when being strong is the only choice, you’ll learn to be.
You know you’re ready for life ahead then, and depend on yourself.

2010-10-09T00:10:00.000+08:00

2010-10-09T00:05:00.000+08:00

The only logical reason for people talking behind your back
is because you’re already ahead of them.

I think everyone at some point goes through that one moment where they think “Oh my God, I can’t do this”. But you know what? You can. No matter how close you are to the edge, no matter how badly you feel like giving up, or think it’s best to do so rather than have to put up with the pain - don’t. Don’t lose hope that things will get better. Don’t give up, because there are friends out there who will make you smile in a way no one else ever could. Keep that glimmer of hope alive in your heart. So wipe your tears and hang on tight.

2010-10-08T19:59:00.001+08:00

2010-10-08T19:23:00.003+08:00

Sometimes to get what you want the most,
you have to do what you want the least.

—Jodi Picoult

Sometimes, the simplest advice that we give to others - to follow your heart, to let go because its no longer worth it anymore - is the hardest for us to follow.

2010-10-07T00:06:00.000+08:00

One of the worst feelings in the world is;
having to doubt something that,
you once thought was unquestionable.

Beginnings are scary. Endings are sad. It’s the middle that counts the most. So don’t look so hard for happy endings because you might miss the best part of the story.

2010-10-07T00:05:00.000+08:00

If you want to be good, quit thinking that others are better.

2010-10-07T00:02:00.000+08:00

2010-10-06T00:06:00.001+08:00

I've the world best sister :)

Writing is a form of therapy. Sometimes I wonder how all those who do not write, compose or paint can manage to escape the madness, the melancholia, the panic fear which is inherent in the human situation.

— Graham Greene (via kari-shma)

2010-10-06T00:02:00.001+08:00

2010-10-06T00:02:00.000+08:00

We must be our own before we can be another’s.

Old photographs are very deceiving. They give us the illusion that we are alive in them, and it’s not true. The person we are looking at no longer exists, and if that person could see us, he or she would not recognize him or herself in us. Who’s that looking at me so sadly, he or she would say.

2010-10-05T00:10:00.000+08:00

The difference between life & art is art is more bearable.

I think there are crossroads in our lives when we make grand, sweeping decisions without realizing it. Like scanning the newspapers headline at a red light, & therefore missing the rogue van that jumps the line of traffic & causes an accident. Entering a coffee shop on a whim & meeting the man you’ll marry one day, while he’s digging for change at the counter.

— The Sister’s Keeper

2010-10-05T00:06:00.000+08:00

2010-10-05T00:02:00.001+08:00

It is a truth universally acknowledged that when one part of your life starts going okay, another falls spectacularly to pieces.

— Bridget Jones’s Diary (via eletheowl)

2010-10-04T00:06:00.003+08:00

"When you start to wonder whether you can trust someone or not,
that’s when you know you shouldn’t be friends. "

Stay true to yourself. Because there are very few people who will stay true to you.

2010-10-04T00:06:00.000+08:00

"It’s funny how every lie contains just enough truth
to seem believable, but not enough truth to be true."

The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

—Henri Nouwen

2010-10-04T00:02:00.000+08:00

One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle ;
will strike you as the most beautiful.

—Sigmund Freud

You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who’ll decide where to go.

—Dr Seuss

2010-10-03T01:12:00.000+08:00

For the good times and the bad times.

2010-10-03T00:05:00.001+08:00

Laughter is not always the best medicine,
sometimes it’s just the best disguise.

2010-10-03T00:05:00.000+08:00

In my next life I want to live backwards. You start out dead and get that out of the way. Then you wake up in an old people’s home feeling better every day. You get kicked out for being too healthy, go collect your pension, and then when you start work, you get a gold watch and a party on your first day. You work for 40 years until you’re young enough to enjoy your retirement. You party, drink alcohol, and are generally promiscuous, then you are ready for high school. You then go to primary school, you become a kid, you play. You have no responsibilities, you become a baby until you are born. And then you spend your last 9 months floating in luxurious spa like conditions with central heating and room service on tap, larger quarters every day and then, Voila! You finish off as an organism! I rest my case.

—Woody Allen

2010-10-03T00:02:00.000+08:00

2010-10-02T00:10:00.000+08:00

I have learned now that while those,
who speak about one’s miseries usually hurt,
those who keep silent hurt more.

Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it’s all over.

—Gloria Naylor

2010-10-02T00:06:00.000+08:00

Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while,
so that we can see life with a clearer view again.

A mature person is one who does not think only in absolutes, who is able to be objective even when deeply stirred emotionally, who has learned that there is both good and bad in all people and in all things, and who walks humbly and deals charitably with the circumstances of life, knowing that in this world no one is all knowing and therefore all of us need both love and charity.

—Eleanor Roosevelt

2010-10-02T00:02:00.000+08:00

You’ve only got three choices in life
— give up, give in, or give it all you’ve got.

Old friends, friends who have stayed true for years, deserve to be cherished. For they show the dedication only a true friend can show. But those who deserve it more, are the ones who can walk straight into your life at any given moment and show the same value.

2010-10-01T13:43:00.002+08:00

Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you’ll be criticized anyway. You’ll be damned if you do and damned if you don’t.

—Eleanor Roosevelt

2010-10-01T00:10:00.001+08:00

2010-10-01T00:02:00.000+08:00

Take my hand, take a breathe.

Pull me close, & take one step.

— Can I Have This Dance

If you’re always looking for reasons not to be with somebody, you’ll always find them. But I guess at some point, you should let go and give your heart what it deserves.

2010-09-30T00:10:00.001+08:00

Only when you have lose it ;
then you'll really understand how much it really hurts.
And I do.

Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone. It isn’t just death we have to grieve - it’s life, it’s loss, it’s change. And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad, the thing we’ve got to remember is that it can turn on a dime. That’s how you stay alive, when you hurt so much you can’t breathe, that’s how you survive. Grief comes in it’s own time for everyone, in it’s own way. So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty. The really crappy thing, the worst part about grief, is that you can’t control it. The best we can do is try to feel it when it comes, and let it go when we can. The very worst part is the minute you think you’re past it, it starts all over again. And always, every time, it takes your breath away.Sometimes is not the console we need , is more of the support we want.Perhaps only time can drive grief away.

2010-09-30T00:05:00.000+08:00

If you find yourself lacking in ways so many that you think you’re unworthy, then be worthy. Or at least, keep on trying.

2010-09-29T00:05:00.000+08:00

I never thought that it’d be easy,
cause we both so distant now and the walls are closing in on us
and were wondering how.

2010-09-29T00:00:00.000+08:00

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that we never feel the heat until we get burned. But we try so hard not to die, sometimes we forget to appreciate life.

2010-09-28T00:10:00.000+08:00

She repeats things until they are true,
or until she can’t tell whether they are true or not.

Sometimes it’s easier to feel like you’re the only one in the world who’s struggling, who’s frustrated or unsatisfied or barely getting by, but the feeling is alive and if you just hold on. Just find the courage to face it all for another day. Someone or something will find you and make it all okay, because we all need a little help sometimes. Someone to help us hear the music in our world, to remind us that it won’t always be this way, that someone is out there and that someone will find you.

2010-09-28T00:05:00.000+08:00

Sometimes, tears are able to convey what words can’t.

Some people, they can just move on, you know, mourn and cry and be done with it. Or at least seem to be. But for me, I don’t know. I didn’t want to fix it, to forget. It wasn’t something that was broken. It’s just something that happened. And I’m just finding ways, every day, of working around it. Respecting and remembering and getting on at the same time.

—Sarah Dessen

2010-09-27T00:10:00.000+08:00

2010-09-27T00:06:00.001+08:00

There always come a point of time in life when we're so tired and so full of self doubts , that we're no longer sure that why we're fighting for whatever it is we're fighting for.

2010-09-27T00:06:00.000+08:00

It’s one of those great moments;
the kind you just can’t plan.

Your friends are your release; they’re who you have the most fun with. And yet when the going gets tough, those people turn around and suddenly, they’re not just making you laugh. They’re being this rock and giving you all their advice, even though you’re so much your own person. If you dissect yourself, I guarantee you, your friends are in there. Their influence is incredible. Best friends are what you need most.

2010-09-27T00:00:00.000+08:00

You may not know it yet,
maybe you’ll never even think about it,

Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.

—Ashley Smith

2010-09-26T13:26:00.002+08:00

Haters are confused admirers who can’t understand
why everybody loves you.

—Paulo Coelho (via quote-book)

In my life I’ve come to realize that you can’t depend upon other people for what you want and you can’t be scared to go out there and get it. You have to dream hard, wish big, and chase after your goals. Because no one else is going to do it for you. And even if things don’t work out, you’ll always be able to say you tried.

2010-09-26T00:05:00.000+08:00

It means nothing.
It still doesn’t mean anything.

But there’s a story behind everything. How a picture got on a wall. How a scar got on your face. Sometimes the stories are simple, and sometimes they are hard and heartbreaking. But behind all your stories is always your mother’s story, because hers is where yours begin.

—Mitch Albom

2010-09-26T00:02:00.000+08:00

To everyone out there,
Don’t be so quick to judge me,
you only see what I choose to show.

2010-09-25T12:43:00.000+08:00

While you’re sitting around thinking about what you can’t change and worrying about all the wrong things, time’s flying by, moving so fast. You better make it count, cause you can’t get it back.

2010-09-25T00:06:00.002+08:00

Just because I don’t say what I feel,
doesn’t mean I don’t feel it.

When you stop learning the same old thing , you start afresh. When you get to adapt to new environment , getting to learn the new culture , trust me it's worth the try. Everything worth a try because you never know how it's turn out to be until you tried. You'll not get the taste of it till you truly experience it . Everything should be given a fair chance to try it out. Who knows you'll get the best out of it one day.

2010-09-25T00:01:00.001+08:00

2010-09-25T00:00:00.000+08:00

You deserve better, I deserve better.
All of us do.

Perfectionism is not a quest for the best. It’s a pursuit for the worst in ourselves. The part of us that tells us we will never be good enough. And it tells us we should try again.

2010-09-24T00:10:00.000+08:00

Sometimes we act like we don’t care,
but the truth is we care too much.

Strange isn't

How your best friend can become your worst enemy or how strange it is when your worst enemy turns into your best friend. How forever turns into a few short months that you’d do almost anything to get back. How you can let go of something you once said you couldn’t live without. How even though you know something is best for you, it hurts just the same. How the people who once wanted to spend every second with you, think a few minutes of their time is too much to spare. How people make promises despite knowing how common it is for promises to be broken. How people can erase you from their lives just because it’s easier than working things out.

2010-09-24T00:02:00.001+08:00

She’s not like that now.
She knows better.

I’m at that point in my life where things are neither good nor bad. They could be better, but they could be worse. And I can’t look at anything with a purely pessimistic or optimistic point of view. It’s just that point in life when you just have to move forward and hope for the best.

2010-09-24T00:02:00.000+08:00

"Sometimes, everything you want comes after you stop looking for it."

It’s funny how we have no trouble pouring out our feelings on the computer, and baring our souls to complete strangers, but when it comes to telling how we really feel to the people that matter the most, we just can’t seem to express ourselves for some reason.

2010-09-23T16:17:00.002+08:00

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. that’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of him, or her, or anybody.

— (via eletheowl)

2010-09-23T06:23:00.000+08:00

You just gotta get there.

2010-09-23T00:06:00.000+08:00

It's a fact that ;
You wouldn't know how high you can get ,
until you get to see how hard you've fall.

2010-09-23T00:02:00.000+08:00

How great if we can deliver more than what we preach.
How great if we can give more than what we take.

2010-09-23T00:00:00.000+08:00

I walked , I fall and I cried .
I tried , I failed and I learnt.

2010-09-22T20:50:00.002+08:00

If I can fall , I must ensure I'll fall a hard one.
If I have landed , I must ensure I landed like no one else do.

Hence ,
I get the meaning of life as time goes by . I'm too possessive over big picture that leads me neglected the finer things in life . I'm too obsessive over certain things that makes me forgotten how to appreciate in life. I'm too stubborn over some areas that cause me to lose some unnecessary things in my life. Perhaps sometimes I am who I am makes me lose somehow in my life.

2010-09-22T00:10:00.000+08:00

I wonder how many people I’ve looked at all my life and never seen.

—John Steinbeck

Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.

2010-09-22T00:05:00.000+08:00

Behind every beautiful thing there is some kind of pain.

— Bob Dylan

2010-09-21T00:10:00.000+08:00

As we grow up, we don’t lose friends.
We just learn who our real ones are.

All in an instant, everything changes. We leave the past behind and speed toward the unknown… our future. We set out for far-off places and try to find ourselves, or try to lose ourselves exploring pleasures closer to home. The problems start when we refuse to let change happen and cling to old habits. But if we hold on to the past too tight, the future may never come.

—Gossip Girl

2010-09-21T00:05:00.000+08:00

Never let the things you want, make you forget the things you have.

2010-09-20T20:32:00.002+08:00

The art of losing isn’t hard to master;so many things seem filled with the intent to be lost that their loss is no disaster.Lose something everyday. Accept the fluster of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.The art of losing isn’t hard to master.

2010-09-20T20:18:00.002+08:00

So,
Here’s one thing life’s taught me. If you want to be happy, quit thinking that you’re the worst off. That you’re the most discounted of what you deserve, quit blaming. You’re not the only hurting, never.

2010-09-20T20:11:00.003+08:00

The start of a relationship is known as;
the ending of two close friendship.
-The latest discovered.

No expectations, no disappointments. That’s undoubtedly a practical advice, but tell me, who can ever keep a heart that expects none at all? We’re supposed to protect those fragile hearts from getting hurt or disappointed, by learning how to be contented and expect less.

2010-09-20T20:07:00.000+08:00

So when being strong is the only choice, you’ll learn to be. You know you’re ready for life ahead then, and depend on yourself. So when it's time for letting go , you'll learn how to. You know you're getting over it then , and depend on yourself too.

2010-09-13T01:14:00.002+08:00

You ought to spend a little more time trying to make something of yourself

and a little less time trying to impress people.

— Breakfast Club (via eletheowl)

It’s only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth — and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up — that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had.

— Elisabeth Kubler-Ross (via shirleycat) (via ache)

2010-09-13T00:10:00.000+08:00

Peace.

It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things & still be calm in your heart.

2010-09-13T00:06:00.000+08:00

The reason for holding on still ,
because there's no reason to give up.

So it will fade right? The demons and ghosts, haunting memories that don’t even belong to. It will all disappear in time, or is it just delusion that I’m living in.

2010-09-13T00:02:00.000+08:00

We have so many masks we put on everyday ,

that we realize we no longer know which one is real.

Then again, it’s best you learn not how to expect. You create surprises in life for yourself by not expecting them, you learn to appreciate more & more importantly, you protect yourself.

2010-09-12T00:58:00.001+08:00

我将人性看得透彻一些，
而谁还相信“人性本善”？

2010-09-12T00:06:00.001+08:00

"Not having to hide, not being in control and not being afraid."

How do you measure death? It’s like how you can’t measure the time of bereavement, the unspeakable sorrow, & intangible pain. Death is so common everyday & life is so fragile yet the impact it brings is huge. Death is intangible. How do you measure love? Loving someone is never easy, it is more than just honey-coated words .Love is subjective. Ask your heart, love is intangible? Perhaps death is intangible. Love is intangible.

2010-09-12T00:06:00.000+08:00

Because we all have impure hearts, we hurt,
we cry, we lie, we are intentionally ignorant.